In "The Rocking Horse Winner," what connection do Paul and the author have?

D.H. Lawrence uses many themes in this story, one being the relationship between a mother and her son. Lawrence's interest in writing about a mother-son relationship comes from his own personal relationship growing up with his mother.

D.H. Lawrence grew up as a witness to his mother's regrets and frustrations in life. Her biggest regret was being married to Lawrence's father and much of her unhappiness and frustrations in life were seen and felt by her children.

Paul, the young character in the story, strives to feel his mother's love and see happiness among his family. However, the adults around him are more concerned with money, success, and materialistic possessions.

Both D.H. Lawrence and Paul wanted love and affection from their mother and wanted to feel the joys of childhood.